I’m not saying that I’m an experts on what woman wants. Heck, sometimes they are just too hard to figure out. I mean, it’s easier to figure us guys out than it is to figures women out. They are very much complex.

If anyone can figure them out, please let us in on their secret of what they wants or desire.

Years ago, when I was a kid or even later, like in the 50’s for example; woman had their place in the home. Back then, men kept them barefoot and pregnant. Not many of them worked outside of the home.

Today, they wants much more than that. Believe me, they deserve it too! A woman can do anything a man can do.

I was taught as a young boy to be a gentlemen and open doors for the ladies. I was also taught to put out your arms and let them hold onto you as they walk the icy sidewalk or parking lot.

Don’t get me wrong, there are some who still like it when a guy do that for them. Yet, now days, some of them gets offended if you hold the door open for them.

Girls are sugar and spice and everything nice. Yet they are not to be treated as being helpless. They are far from it.

Years ago, mothers would tells their daughters to get themselves a rich man; and let them take care of them.

Now days, women wants it all. They want a career and a family. They can achieve it as much as any guys out there. They wants equal pay for equal work. They deserve that too. That is only fair!

One of the most difficult Bible passages is from Ephesians 5:22-25. In verse 22, “wives are to submit to their husbands.” Then in verse 25, “Husbands are to love your wives.”

It doesn’t mean that wives are to be a doormat to their husbands though. Just like in Ephesians 6:1-4. Where children are to obey and honor their parents.

Men, we are not to dominate our wives or our children. Yet, there are those who do that in the name of the Lord.

I have to admit that for the longest time, I had a big problems with Ephesians 5 and 6. I was raised in a family that where the father was very dominating and controlling. I’m so glad that my mother was an independent woman. She was a feminist who also loved her family as well. it goes to show that women can have it all.

Because she was very much independent, she was able to stand up for herself; up until the end.

My step-dad voted for Obama over Hillary Clinton; because he wasn’t much for the idea of a woman president. He felt that woman had their place in the family. Yet he couldn’t control my mother. So in a way, she was good for him.

Like I said earlier, I’m no expert on what women wants. I’m not even able to come clean with my emotions and expressed my interest in someone I’m falling love with.

Women like a man who can be both strong and sensitive. They like someone who can protect them and comfort them at the same time. Yet, when they goes through that time of the month, that is a time for us guys to have a man cave to hide away until it is safe to come out.

Guys who had been married for a long time still can’t figure out their wives. They may complained about her; but yet deep down they loves her unconditionally. They are willing to do whatever it takes to satisfy her at all cost.

There was this one woman named, Danielle, who I found myself falling in love with. Yet, I couldn’t bring myself to let her know. As I said earlier, I wasn’t in touch with my emotional feelings as many guys aren’t.

Anyway, she was over in my apartment talking on my phone. I noticed that she was upset; so before she left, I said to her, “You look like you need a hug.” We hug and believe me, guys, it felt very nice; if you know what I mean.

I also have been to her apartment as well. It was Valentine’s Day and I took a chance and bought her a valentine; not knowing where it would leads me. I even made a strawberry Margarita and brought it over to her apartment.

Now days, with all this “me-too” situation going around, a person has to be careful when dealing with woman. When I was younger, you didn’t have to worry about that as much.

When I was in Junior High, there was a girl that I was interested in. Her name was Janet Cederberg. The other boys in school all knew it to. At that age, there is peer pressure to for boys by other boys. Here is a confession: with the encouragement of the other boys, I kissed her on the lips. I have to admit, I admired her even though I got my face slap by her.

Years ago, the saying goes that women loves sex, diamonds and money. Well to be totally honest, men crave sex more than women do. Who doesn’t love money. Money can buy diamonds.

Valentine’s day was created by women to get the men to buy them gifts or take them out to places that they normally wouldn’t go. Not many men will go to a classical concert themselves. They go because of their wives or girlfriends. They prefer doing what men loves doing.

When a man loves a woman, he will do whatever it takes to satisfy her.

Women loves chocolate, flowers, diamonds and being pampered. They wants to be comfort by their man.

At the same time, they wants their career as well.

As Shania Twain sang in “Any man of Mine,” he must truly love and respect their woman. Even if she happens to make more than he does.

I think my step-dad’s ego was bruise a little when he lost his job and my mother had to work to bring home the paycheck instead.

So this Valentine’s Day, guys treat your girlfriends or wives right. Love and respect them, not just on Valentine’s day though, everyday.

They may be expensive to have but they’re worth it.

God created woman out of man. God made woman because he knew that men are not meant to live alone. Remember, God created Adam and Eve; not Adam and Steve.

I wish that had a girlfriend or wife that I can spoil on Valentine’s day. There were woman that I was very much interested in; but I just couldn’t come clean with my feelings of love and expressed it.

I could go on with other girls in my life but I think you get the message. I love them everyone!

Today is Super Bowl Sunday. My question is: how many NFL players are kneeling during the National Anthem?

Colin Kaepernick was the first NFL player to kneel during the National Anthem. After he did it many others had followed suit and joined him. Even the celebrities had joined forces with him; along with the Leftist.

I don’t mind the idea of standing up for what you believe or not believe. I mean, this is still a free country.

Remember though, it’s a free country because of those who served in our military. We should honor our veterans, both those who died and those who are still alive.

We should also honor and respect the American flag as well.

During the Vietnam War, protester would burn the flag as a protest against that war. I get that.

This is America, the country I love. I love my country and I’m forever grateful for our veterans for their sacrifice to this country. Because of their sacrifice, I will stand up during the National Anthem and salute the American flag.

If you are going to protest the National Anthem and the American flag, do it on your own time. You NFL’s pro-football players are employed by the fans. If it weren’t for us buying the tickets to see the game and even watching it on TV, you wouldn’t have a job; where you makes millions playing ball.

Ever since Colin Kaepernick started this kneeling during the National Anthem, others had fallen suit. Celebrities and the Leftist, all encourage it.

This is a very controversial blog, like last blog was.

When I was in school, the first thing the class did every morning was stand and pledge allegiance to the flag, the American flag. I’m proud to be an American!

This year at the Super Bowl, Gladys Knight sang the National Anthem, and the celebrities and the Leftist weren’t too happy about it. They expected her to join them is the protest.

Rianna was first asked to sing the National Anthem but she turned it down because she sides in with Colin Kaepernick.

I think that the NFL’s board member should fine those who choose to kneel during the National Anthem. Not only should they fine them, they should be kick off the team as well.

Is it America they hate or is it Pres. Trump they hate?

Just because Trump wants to make America great again; it doesn’t give them the right to be disrespectful during the National Anthem. That is what they are being! I have NO RESPECT for them.

As you can tell by the photo on the top of this blog, I’m proud to be an American. I love this country! I will gladly stand up during the National Anthem out of respect. The only excuse you should have for not standing up is that you are in a wheelchair. I will salute the American flag as well.

On 9/11, 2001, I was working at Concordia College. There was a prayer service in the chapel area during the evening. I joined few of the students and staff in the chapel to offer prayers and support for our country in that time of crisis. I even took off my cap out of respect. That is what you do, as an American.

Those who choose not to stand during the National Anthem are walking on the fighting side of me. I salute our veterans for their service to this country. Those who are still alive and those who either died in service or later.

If you hate this country so much, why don’t you just leave! There are many who are dying to come to this country for the freedom that we enjoyed. I mean we have caravans of people coming to this country from Mexico and Central America. They don’t hate this country. They want a better life. They want the freedom that we have; that they may not have in their home country.

So the next time you choose to kneel, remember that the reason you have the choice to do it because of the freedom we have. In lots of country you don’t have that freedom. If you protest the government in some of the other countries, such as: Russia, China, Iraq, and the list goes on. They will kill you in a firing squad.

So why don’t KNEE this, you anti-American!! We don’t need your kind here to destroy our great country. If you hate America so bad, you can just get the HELL out. I have no respect at all for you!!

GOD BLESS THE USA!!!

This is the most topical and one of the controversial blog thus far. One of the main reason that this country is so divided right now. We have people in favor of THE WALL. And we have those who are against it.

I know that something needs to be done involving the illegal immigrants coming to this country. I also know how we must protect our country at all cost. I’m for a strong defense.

We need to protect ourselves from drugs coming into this country illegally. We need to protect ourselves from terrorist coming into this country to take over and destroy. We need to keep those assault weapons from coming into this country illegally.

I have to admit, at first, I thought like so many; that there must be a better way. The more I think about it, the more I come to realize that THE WALL is the solution to the problems.

I have nothing against people coming to this country legally. It’s when they come to this country illegally and either take our jobs or get free government’s assistant that we the taxpayers are paying for.

Our forefathers were all immigrants when they discovered America. The only Natural born citizen in this country was the Native American.

My grandfather was a child when his family came to this country from Germany in the early 1900’s. They came legally though. Then during WW1, my grandfather fought in that war; even when it meant going back to Germany and fighting for the United States.

Let us get to why THE WALL is very much needed. The Democrats don’t see it; because they are pro-illegal immigrants. They are for Sanctuary City. They are the ones who is offering them free money from the government; that us taxpayers are paying for. Those illegal immigrants are the Democrats bread and butter, their only chance of staying in office.

Before 9/11 of 2001, a person can go up to Canada without any difficulty. Now thanks to Pres. George W. Bush, a person now needs a passport just to go to Canada. I thought they were our allies.

It seems that it’s easier for those to come to this country illegally from Mexico than it is for us to go up to Canada just to visit. I don’t get that!

Before Europe became one nation, it was a little tougher to go from one country to another. They had stricter border laws. Once they became one nation, the border laws were removed and they been having lots of problems with terrorist coming into their country to destroy it.

Do we want that for us here?

I know that I don’t, and I know that I’m not alone.

THE WALL is the best defense we can take to protect our country from terrorist, from illegal immigrants coming in and killing innocent people. It is the best defense from illegal drugs from entering our country. It is the best defense from illegal weapons from entering our country.

The Democrats should like that; since they are for gun control.

Throughout history, THE WALL was big success in protecting other countries.

The major wall is the GREAT WALL of CHINA. Some say that a person can see that wall from outer space. I don’t know how true that is though. The reason that wall was built was for defense purpose; and it worked way back then. It kept the enemies from entering illegally.

Even the Lord said that it is important to have a wall, to protect His people from idol worshipper that will corrupt His people. An example is found in Ezekiel 22:30; which states, “I looked for a man among them who would build up the wall and stand before me in the gap on behalf of the land so I would not have to destroy it, but I found none.”

In other words, it kept the people of Israel from being corrupted by idols and idols worshippers. When a country becomes over run by corruption, they are soon destroyed by their own destruction.

President Trump is the only President that has the balls to actually do something about the illegal immigrants problems. Many politicians just talk about it; but there is no action behind it. By Trump allowing God to used him to build THE WALL, the Lord will bless him.

If we don’t do all that we can to protect ourselves, the United States will fall. The FALL will comes from within. So we must do all we can to protect ourselves and to make America great again.

There have been many cops and even young innocent people being killed by illegal immigrants. Yet the fake mainstream news and the Democrats don’t want the people to know that. They are just saying that is being fabricated by the Republicans.

I have to admit during the 2016 election, I thought it was funny, because as Trump was saying build the wall, I was remembering President Reagan saying to Russia. “The WALL must come down.” He was talking about the Berlin Wall. The reason why the Berlin Wall was built after WW2 was to keep the people in East Germany; so that is a whole different thing though.

Another wall is the Wall in Israel that is built to keep the terrorist from entering their country and taking it over. That wall is doing one heck of a job too.

Many countries who attack another country with a wall would always lose because they couldn’t get in.

It’s like Alcatraz prison. The wall was so thick that the prisoners couldn’t really escape. That prison was also surrounded by water also.

So the WALL must be built thick to be effective and protective.

People up here in Fargo, ND wants a diversion flood wall to protect the city from getting flooded out. Yet, there are people who don’t want THE WALL to be built to protect the United States from illegal immigrants. What gives?

As the famous lines, “If you build it, they will come.” Well how about, if we build the WALL, they won’t come. They will not be able to come into this country illegally.

If they want to come to this country and become an American citizen, they have to go through the proper channel like everyone else. If they want to come into this country to either take over or destroy us from within, we have the rights to protect ourselves. THE WALL can do just that. It will give us the security we need.

The Democrats needs to stop bickering with Pres. Trump and give him what he wants so that we can build THE WALL. He talks about maybe Mexico paying for it. I’d say that maybe the Chinese should build the WALL; since the Great Wall of China was such a huge success for them when it was built.

If the Democrats under the leadership of Pelosi and Schumer don’t give Trump what he wants, we the American people will remember them and vote them out of office. Who needs those nuts jobs anyway?

The time has come for us to build THE WALL. If we are to make America great again, we must do all we can to protect our country. By building THE WALL, we can do just that. I’m for a strong defense, and building the WALL is part of that defense. It is God’s will for the United States to have the WALL built to protect the American people, the CHOSEN. If we don’t and allow the enemies in to destroy us from within, the Lord will punish us.

There is so much hate in this country right now. This is not what Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. had in mind when he did his famous “I had a Dream” speech.

Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. spoke that all men are created equal. No one will be judge by the color of their skin.

This country is so divided right now. The last time that the United States was this divided was the 1860’s, during the Civil War.

Abraham Lincoln, the very first Republican who was President when he fought to freed the slaves that was a blemish to this beloved country of ours.

At the same time, it was the Democrats; as it is now, that fought it. The Democrats was so afraid of losing their property. You see, the slaves(negroes) were considered property.

We know what happened back then. Slavery was defeated. The blacks were freed. They were no longer considered property. They still struggled for awhile, though.

Also under the Democrats leadership, the organization KKK was formed. The KKK didn’t want the blacks to own properties. They fought and fought to keep them at their lowest.

To this day, the Democrats are still playing politics with the American people. All they care about is themselves. They are proving it time and time again.

One thing that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr would be happy about is that United States had their first black President. That is as far he would go with that. I don’t think he would very much approve of Obama.

Under the Obama’s administration, racial tension has been at its highest. And of course, Pres. Obama was right there pushing the racial tension at a rapid speed. He had no respect for the law enforcement. He called them out for being racist.

The faked news, the so-called mainstream news media is spurting hate more and more. They call all of the Trump’s supporters, a bunch of “rednecks.” They think that we are being manipulated because we are just too stupid. Even Hillary Clinton and Obama both said that.

In the words of Rodney King, “Can’t we all get along!”

Under the leadership of both Nancy Pelosi and Chuck Schumer, they are playing politics with our lives. Because of their hatred for Trump, they wouldn’t budge and give Pres. Trump what he wants. If it was anybody else, it would be a different story.

Here is a message to them: if you keep doing what you are doing, we will remember and vote you out in 2020. Quit playing politics with our lives!

The reason why Trump was elected was because the American people was upset with our career politicians. The politicians are the employees and the American people are the employers. Think about that and come to a compromise that will be good for all American.

The latest thing mentioned on Fox news but not the faked news is the this. One of the woman’s leaders is stepping down from the Women’s movement. The reason was because they are becoming an exclusive club. Not all women are accepted. If you are pro-life, forget it. If your are a Jew or a Christian, forget it. Under the Woman’s movement, there is a radical ISAM that they admired. He was a friend of Obama.

Doesn’t these women realized that the radical ISAM treats woman as property. So why support him?

As the title states, what the world needs is love. You may think that I’m not walking the walk and talking the talk. Well, I’m only saying this because it’s the Democrats and faked news that is spurting hate. They are giving me topics to write about. If they would quit spurting hate at the American people, I would have to find something else to talk about.

As we remembered Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. tomorrow, let us learn to love one another. Let us come together and be united with one another. This is all that he ever wanted. According to the Constitution, we are all considered equal. It’s time that we all act like it. It’s time that the Democrats start thinking of the American people rather than themselves. If they don’t, we will vote them out of power in 2020.

May the fake news media quit spurting so much hate against Trump and his supporters. Don’t they know that love wins in the end.

As divided as this country had become, it makes me wonder if we are heading for another Civil War. Does the Democrats really wants that? Does the fake news wants that? Do those who are spurting hate wants that for this country?

Growing up, I remembered my step-dad always saying, “The United States is heading for another Civil War.”

We should learn from our history. Yet, these Leftist is trying to rewrite history to suit them. If it’s doesn’t suit them, they don’t wants any part of it.

So instead of hating each other, let us love one another. Remember love wins!!

There are people who voted for Barak Obama because he was the first black president. Remember, though, he was only half black. The people who voted for him felt that history would be made; and it was once he was first elected.

I’m here to tell you, that wasn’t the reason why I voted for Obama. Yes, this Reagan’s Republican voted for Obama back in 2008 and 2012.

Let us take trip back to 2008!

My first choice back then was Rudy Giullani. I like how he handled things when he was the mayor of New York City after 9/11. He got them through that crisis. He wasn’t a career politician either. He wasn’t part of the Establishment in Washington either. Of course, I didn’t want Hillary Clinton either.

In the beginning of that election primary, it looks like Hillary Clinton would had gotten the nomination. Barak Obama was pretty new at the game of politics back then.

Remember, I didn’t wanted George W. Bush back in 2000 and even 2004. He was part of the Established Republicans. They were not the reason why I became a Republican in the first place. I became a Republican because of Ronald Reagan; who was non-establishment. I was very much upset at the way the Government was going in Washington.

Guillani wasn’t part of the establishment either and he was a way better choice than John McCain. It looks like John McCain was about to bow out of the race; when he got a second wind. Or in other words, somehow, Guillani somehow just fizzle out for some reason. He tried to put all his eggs in one basket and it didn’t pay off like he hope for.

Then I happened to catch Obama’s speech and was very much impress with what he had to say. I know that I wasn’t the only Republicans who voted for Obama either.

Like I mentioned before, the tea party movement was formed under George W. Bush, because those involved were unhappy with the Established Republicans.

Obama made such an impression on me with the promise of change. We needs changes in Washington. He was talking a good talk to the American people. He knew just what to say. He wasn’t in office for very long either.

With Guillani fizzling out during the primary, it gave Obama the boost he needed to defeated Hillary Clinton during the primary and get the nomination.

To the reason for the title, is the Obamas for real, they came across as being down-to-earth. Even though they were very rich, they seemed to be down-to-earth. They were very people oriented compared to Hillary Clinton. Hillary was so stiff.

Hillary tried to be more people oriented in 2016 against Trump; but she wasn’t able to pulled it off.

I couldn’t stand John McCain, because he was a career politician and part of the establishment as well. Whereas, Obamas were more down-to-earth compare to McCain.

I’m not going to downplay his works he did as President because he did do some good things. It may not been a lot of right things to do but that is different. He did catch Bin Laden though.

We needed better healthcare than what we had until Obamacare. Yet, there were some flaws in Obamacare as well. Under Obamacare, the price of the insurance premium went up. There was a penalty put on your taxes when you filed; that if you didn’t have insurance, you were made to pay a penalty. That was ridiculous!! There were people who still didn’t get insurance because they felt that it wasn’t worth it.

Universal healthcare isn’t all that it was set up to be. I’m not going to say anymore than that because that is a different blog, altogether.

Then in 2012, I did like Herman Cane, who was a CEO from Dominos Pizza and his 10% down on his tax plan. Taxes is way too high the way it was. If 10% is enough for the church, it sure is more than plenty for the government.

During the Primary, the Established Republicans went all out to destroy Herman Cane’s reputation and made him drop out of the race for president. If he would had gotten the nomination, I would had voted Republicans again by voting for him. He wasn’t able to stand up against them like Trump did in 2016.

So once again, the Established Republicans lost my vote when they nominated Mitt Romney to run against Obama.

It goes to show, that the American people were very much angry with our career politicians in Washington. Let us look at 2016: the established Republicans candidates couldn’t pull a win during the primary. Only the non-establishment were able to stick it out and win; candidates like Trump, Ben Carson, Ted Cruz, and Marco Rubio did well.

The Republicans were not the only party to have problems though in winning over the American people. The Democrats is also facing problems themselves. There is the mainstream Democrats and there is those who are too far Left. They are Socialist; but call themselves the Progressive movements.

It goes to show that we need term limits for our Congressman and Senators. Maybe also doing away with the 2 party systems as well. We need more Independent candidate to run for President. Believe me, I would vote for anyone who is in favor of term limits for the Senate and the House. It doesn’t matter if they are Republicans or Democrats.

Since Trump took office, many of these career politicians are stepping down. There are still some that needs to do in both party. The American people are happy to see these career politicians stepping down; but yet they really hate Trump. That doesn’t make sense! He is doing what needs to be done. We needed something like this for a long time.

Obama talk a good talk when he campaigned on change. Change is coming, and it started under Obama. It was even making headway under George W. Bush. This change in Washington will even continue until the mess is cleaned up. No one president can get it all done in one or two terms.

So tell me, if you can, was the Obamas for real? Was he just talking a good talk or was he just the beginning of the change that was and is to come, with Trump and with any future candidates. Was he really down-to-earth or was it just an act? Did he knew how to play us or was he genuine?

The year 2018 had been known as the year of the woman

The “Me-too” movement had made an impact on today’s society. I have to admire those women who stood up to their abuser. It takes courage.

I do have to admit though what is the ultimate motives behind this “Me-too” movement? Is it for the right reason? Or is it for revenge? Are they doing it for healing purpose or are they doing it to be a force to be reckon with?

Even though it takes courage to speak out against their perpetrator; they have to be careful that they don’t become a victim all over again.

In the years between 1848-1920, the women suffrage started. It was during that time that women was able to vote and own property. Before that they were known as property themselves.

For a long time women was known as second-class citizen, even in the Bible time.

I’m for equal pay for equal work. I’m for women having rights as citizen as men. There are countries though that still treats women as property. In Iraq and the Middle East; especially among the Muslims countries. women are considered property. They have to wear a veils over their faces. They are not to be seen or heard.

Yet these Leftist, who supports the Muslims extremist, seems to forget that.

We still have a long way to go though.

My mother was a Feminist and an independent woman. She wanted to see a woman president. Yet, she didn’t care much for Hillary Clinton.

It has to be the right woman to be President. It can’t be just anyone.

I mean, in 2000, I voted for a woman for President, when I voted for Elizabeth Dole over George W. Bush.

In Ephesians 5:22-28, “Wives are to submit to their husbands as to the Lord. Husbands are to love their wives just as Christ loved the church” This is only part of these verse, read it for yourself.”

I’m not saying that women are to be a doormat to their husbands and let them abuse and control them completely. They are to be equal with each other.

God created Eve to be a helper for Adam. Woman was created out of man.

A true feminist is the one who can bring home the bacon and fry it too. Their family is still their highest priority.

Like I said, I admired those who stood up against their abusers. It took courage to stand up against people like Harvey Weinstein.

I have to admit, I had a hard time to see Bill Cosby being guilty of sexual assault. First of all, he was America’s favorite TV’s dads. Second, one of his accusers, Janice Dixon, I had a hard time in believing. Her reputation succeed her.

It took courage for Christine Ford to make her statement against Brett Kavenaugh. Yet at the same time the Democrats took advantage of her.

The reason for Sen. Susan Collins vote for Kavanaugh was because she felt that the confirmation process was dysfunctional, it looks more like a caricature of gutter-level political campaign than a solemn occasion. In other words, the Democrats were just using it as a political gain.

I believe in times we will have a woman president. It just have to be the right one. They are to be strong but not abuse their authority like men sometimes do. We can’t just elect a woman just because.

Hillary Clinton lost the election because she abused her authority.

I heard someone say, that Elizabeth Warren would be good. The excuse they gave was that she isn’t corrupt. (I won’t go into that.) All I will say is this: A real good person, who isn’t corrupt will not survive being in politics. Politics is dirty business. Sometimes you have to be a little dirty to withstand the corruptness in Washington. A good person will never survive. I may say that it would be nice to run for office; but then I think, could I survive without getting my hands dirty?

No wonder being president make a person age while in office.

Women had made some accomplishment. Former Sen. Heidi Heightcamp was the first woman senator from North Dakota.

The city of Moorhead had elected their first woman mayor, Del Rae Williams was her name. If you noticed, she only served one term. She saw how dirty politics can be; and that was a small scale.

This election, Tennessee elected their first woman senator. She was a republican by the name of Marsha Blackburn. She won despite having Taylor Swift supporting her opponent instead

Margaret Thatcher was the first Prime Minister from England, and she was known as Iron Lady. She was admired by Pres. Reagan.

Golda Meir was the first Prime Minister from Israel. She was responsible for bringing the Jews back to Israel back after WW2.

I guess what I’m saying United States will eventually have a their first woman President; but she must be the right one. She must not abuse her authority.

To all those who hate Pres. Trump, I have to say, he had done a lot for the women’s movement. You may call him a sexist pig. You may call me a sexist pig. If it wasn’t for Trump in bringing about the changes in Washington, 2018 may not been a good of a year for the women.

No one likes change! Yet we all go through it from the time we’re born until we die. Change is inevitable.

We change from being babies to toddler to teenagers. When we hit the teenage years there is a bunch of changes in our body that we goes through. Young girls develop breast and young boys get to the point of needing to shave. Even our voices changed.

Once kids grow up and leaves the home, they faced a bunch of changes as well. Some may go to college, tech school, or join the military. Some will even have to get a full time job to make a living. (They can’t live off mom and dad forever.)

Then when the time comes that you meet the One that you want to spend the rest of your life with. You make changes in your personal life to adjust to that relationship. Then when you have kids of your own, more changes happened in your life and family. You can’t drive around in a fancy sports car anymore. You have to drive a Suburban because of your growing family. You even start thinking about saving money for a house, kids’ education, and even retirement. You are starting to settle down, hopefully.

In the early 1900’s people held on to their jobs. They didn’t change their jobs as often as we do now. The reasons: the employers took care of their employees and their family back then. There wasn’t as many opportunity as there is today to better yourself.

Even the Baby Boomers were more apt to stick with their jobs.

When I was born, I just missed the Baby Boomers by a year; thus I’m a Generation X. So part of me can relate to the baby boomers. My generation is the generation that started the change movement; but the Millennium is the generation that is mainly known for changing jobs the most. Some say “how can they establish a good report if they don’t stay at a job long enough.”

The Millennium is looking for a job with more money but less hours. Employers seems to like that to.

Once a person becomes an adult, they are more apt to move more times than their parents did. They are even more apt to switch jobs. Some say that they cannot be as dependable as the older generation.

I think one of the reason is that there is more opportunity to better oneself than there was years ago. Some may even have a little entitlement issues, thinking that mommy and daddy, or the government will take care of them.

When a person hit mid-life, they goes through some changes as well. First of all, what women calls that time of month, also known as PMS. Believe me that is the time that husbands are so glad to have their man-cave; just to get away from their wives at their crazy time of the month.

People will goes through mid-life crisis and make changes in their life. Some will do crazy things and some not so crazy. There will be reason for these life changes; either health, kids grown , or whatever.

Sometimes a death in the family will bring about changes. When someone close in the family dies, they start evaluating their life.

Once I hit 50, I made a health choice. I saw that I had an uncle who made 82 years old and I have an aunt who is in her 90’s. The decision I made when I turned 50 was to start eating healthier. I came to realize that I don’t have to die young. There is longevity in my family. I just needed to change my diet and start eating healthier. I made it my goal. I’m not saying I don’t cheat; but since I started eating healthier, I feel better. I don’t have the heart trouble so far. I have been slowly losing weight and people can tell.

Also around this time, I started writing my blog for the internet. The weirdest thing is, I went to college for this writing; not knowing what I really want to do with my life. So you can say, my life have went full circle. It had been 2 years and thanks to all my readers, I’m up to almost 3000 viewers from all over the world. I even have BBC news following my blog. I don’t know when I will actually start getting paid but that will happens.

This past year, first I popped a ligament in my knee and it was painful. I even walked with a cane for a couple of days. Believe me, I thought to myself I’m much too fun to feel this damn old. It brought about more changes I needed to make in my life.

I even switch job this year. Believe me, I was scared at first, being my age as well. Yet, I knew that I needed to do something before it was too late. I was working at Kmart at the time; when I saw the writing on the wall.

What I went through, was this a mid-life crisis or was it apart of life changes that we all must goes through?

Like I said earlier, no one likes changes. Even though we have to go through it in our life. Sometimes we will fight these changes.

Like for example the change that is happening in Washington. The American people is so unhappy with our government. Yet when we get someone as President who is trying clean up Washington and make a change for the better; we fight it every step away.

This is the first in a series of blogs about how the changes that is happening this year and the last few years at that. So stay tuned the next few weeks.

By the way Happy New Year!! May 2019 be a year of change for you all. May 2019 be a year of good things to come for me and for you.

I know that Jesus doesn’t need any one of us to make a case for Him. He made his own defense by not saying a word to His accusers. He did asked though in the Great Commission, found in Matthew 28:19-20, “Therefore go and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father, and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, and teaching them to obey everything I have commanded you. And surely I am with you always, to the very end of the age.”

The world needs Jesus now more than ever.

This Christmas, take the time to remember the birth of Jesus Christ. God came down to earth as a little baby born in a manger. Mary was a virgin; and so the conception was a miracle in itself.

Even though, we celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ during Christmas; the Bible scholars will tell you that his birth wasn’t actually around Christmastime.

In the manger scene, we sees Baby Jesus, His parents, Mary and Joseph, shepherds, and 3 wise men from the East. In reality, the 3 wise men wasn’t actually at the manger. They came to Jesus once Mary and Joseph was in a house. Think about it, they made the longest journey.

The reason for Jesus being born in a manger in Bethlehem, was because Mary and Joseph had to go back to their home town for a census. The inn was full at the time.

Mary was riding a donkey into Bethlehem and Jesus rode a donkey into Jerusalem before He was crucified.

Think about that: Jesus lowered Himself for us all. He humbled Himself. He taught us humility throughout the Bible.

In Isaiah 9:6-7, the prophet announced, “For to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. Of the increase of his government and peace there will be no end. He will reign on David’s throne and over his kingdom, establishing and upholding it with justice and righteousness from that time on and forever,”

Yet, the Jewish leaders had a tough time to believe that Jesus Christ was promised Messiah. They expected Him to be born in a palace; rather than a manger. They didn’t expect Him to lower Himself like He did.

Even to this day, there are Jews who still doesn’t believe that the promised Messiah came. Yet there are Jews for Christ who do believe that Jesus Christ is the Messiah. He was more than a prophet. He was the Son of God.

According to John 3:16, “For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him may not perish but may have eternal life.”

Can you even fathom that love?

The Lord loves us so much that he willingly made the ultimate sacrifice for us all. We don’t know when Jesus will return again. He could return anytime. He is being patient in His returns because He doesn’t want anyone of us to perish.

With all the hate going on in the world today, we need Jesus now more than ever. Let us not just celebrate Jesus during Christmas; let us honor Him all year long.

It seems that Jesus Christ had been taken out of Christmas. Instead of Merry Christmas, it’s Merry Xmas.

The people behind ACLU is even getting rid of the manger scene. They don’t like the manger scene to be shown in front of a church, a school, or even someone’s home.

They wouldn’t even like that I’m mentioning Jesus in this blog.

Well I don’t care. I’d rather have Jesus in my life. He is my Lord and Savior. I celebrate His birth and His life. I’m forever grateful for all that he done for me.

I once was lost but now am found.

The Bible passage that is a part of my testimony is Luke 15, the parable of the Prodigal Son. I was baptized as a baby in a Catholic church. I went through the Catechism. I got confirmed in a Lutheran church. So I was taught the Bible and all about Jesus. Like any other teens, I doubted Jesus. With the life, I had, there was no wonder.

I won’t go into that life I had in this blog; but I will share how Jesus came into my life.

I was flipping through the channels on TV and came upon Televangelist Dwight Thompson. Now, I was never big on Televangelist. Anyway, for some reason, I couldn’t turned the channel. It was like the Holy Spirit had stopped me. Then one night Dwight Thompson preached on Luke 15, the Prodigal Son. Then during the night while I was sleeping, I heard the voice of the Lord speaking to me. He told me that he loved me and was there for me. I cried as I accepted the Lord into my life that night. I then got re-baptized, by being submerge in water like Jesus was baptized by John the Baptist.

Don’t just take my words about Jesus, read the Bible.

We need Jesus Christ now more than ever. We need Him to return and save us all. Only Jesus can destroy all this hate in the world today.

I’m not going to apologize if I offended anyone. I’m making my case for Jesus Christ, who is my Lord and Savior. He had done so much for me and He is still at work in my life to this day. I love Jesus and if anyone is offended so be it.

Jesus is the best gift in my life that I ever received.

This Christmas let us put Jesus Christ back into Christmas. He is the real reason we celebrate Christmas. It is not the gifts you buy or get from someone. It is not Santa Claus.

Put a little love in your heart by putting Jesus back where He belongs. It’s time that we get back to God.

     Have you ever played the what if game?  Have you ever wondered what if this happened instead of that?  

      Let us play the what if game with President Donald Trump!  

      First of all, Donald Trump wasn’t really a true conservative Republican.  He was a Democrat.  The only reason why he ran as a Republican was because the Democrats had what they called a “Super Delegate.”  

       Super Delegate is defined as a person who is chosen to a political party’s presidential nominating convention because of his or her status as a leader or official within the party and who is free to vote in primary elections and caucuses preceding the convention.

       Super delegates were invented by the Democrats after the 1980 election in the expectation that in any future close nomination race, they would line up behind the establishment candidate and head off the possibility of a ruinous floor fight at the convention.  

       So you can say that if anything is fix in the election; it’s the Democrats nomination process.  They may blame the Russian for losing the election; in reality, they are responsible for losing the election themselves in 2016.  

       Donald Trump knew that; so that was why he chose to run as a Republican.  He knew that his chances to win the nomination and be elected as President was better as a Republican.  

        Let us look at the 2016 election.  Both Trump and Bernie Sanders had a larger crowd then Hillary Clinton and the Republican Establishment.  Even though Bernie Sanders had a larger crowd, it was already set up for Hillary to get the nomination by the Democratic party.  Don’t you think they should rethink that?  

       Donald Trump was friends with the Clintons and they were even at his wedding.  He was even a big donor on their campaign.  

       Donald Trump had friends in Hollywood.  He had a huge audience with his reality show, “The Apprentice;” which was on NBC.  

       When he and Rosie O’Donnell got into a tiff while she was on the View, it was pure entertainment and comical.  The people seems to root for Trump.  

        I have to admit at first I was scared of Trump because of his big mouth.  I, at first wanted Dr. Ben Carson for President.  The reason was because he wasn’t part of the Established Republicans.  I have to admit, I like Trump more and more.  I like him because he isn’t a career politician.  I like him because he has a backbone, and is not afraid to stand up the fake news media and those in Washington.  I like that he isn’t afraid to break some rules to get the job the done.  He had done more for this country in the 2 years in office than any president since Ronald Reagan.  

       If he was a Democrat, I would probably still vote for him; because he wasn’t a career politician.  

       I heard people say that the problem is with our 2-party system.  That may be part of the problems; but the main problems is we need term limits to put a stop to these  career politicians.  

        Reagan wasn’t part of the Establishment either.  He also face opposition from both the Established Republicans and the Democrats.  He even faced opposition from the press as well.  

       We needed someone to stand up against those Leftist media and those career politicians in Washington.  

        If Trump was a Democrat, he wouldn’t faced the opposition with the fake mainstream news media and the with the Democrats.  He would be their best buddy.  

        Sure, the Fox news wouldn’t be happy with him and even the Republicans.  I don’t think they would go as far and illegally as the Democrats are going right now.  

        The difference between the Republicans and the Democrats is as simple as black and white.  The Republicans will use a more peaceful way of protesting.  They will also looks for ways that they can win the right way.   

       Whereas, the Democrats are more apt to moved to violence and spurns hate.  Remember, it was the Leftist Democrats, under the disguise of “hippies,” who violently protested the Vietnam War.  Those “hippies” had gotten older and now some of them are in Washington.  

         So you tell me if you can!  Is it Trump you hate or is it the Republican Party that you dislike?   Do you really have a ground to stand on with your hatred toward Trump?  Think about this!!

        I’m not saying that the Republicans Party is perfect, by no means.  There are some Republicans that needs to go in Washington.  

        The Democrats isn’t perfect either.  They still have Super Delegates.  That keeps any good candidates from actually running for office.  They also have some Socialist that I’m not happy with.  I’m not going to talk about them because that is a different blog.  

          So the next time you are spurting hate at President Trump, ask yourself if it’s warranted?  Where is that hatred coming from?  

        There are people who is so upset with these career politicians.  Yet when someone like Trump comes along, they turned their anger on him.  He is not a career politicians folks.  

         So put your anger where it really belong and with these career politicians, do not blame Trump.  He is only saying what the American people is angry at.  He wants to make America great again.  

         Our forefathers were afraid that our government would become too big.  That was why they put in the Constitution, that our politicians would not make a career out of being in Washington.  They will serve their terms and go back home and deals with the laws they made.  

       Too many of our politicians are bought off by these Lobbyist.  That also needs to stop.  The American people don’t have the voice they are supposed to because of these Lobbyist.  

        So once again, who do you hate more, President Trump, the Republicans, our career politicians, or  the news media?

        The news media now have a bad reputation right now.  They are as hated as our career politicians, the IRS, and telemarketer.  

        Instead of hating Trump for trying to make America great again; put that hate where it really belong.  

As you probably already know by now, George Bush Sr. had passed away.  He was the oldest living President at the time at 94 years old.  Now former President Jimmy Carter is now the oldest living President.

I won’t be as nice to him as I was to his lovely wife Barbara Bush.  Yet I won’t be as rough on him like I was with John McCain either.  You be the judge though!

First of all I want to say this.  When he was Vice-President under the greatest President, Ronald Reagan, he was in Fargo, ND.  I was outside near the NDSU campus when his limo was driving by.  I’ll never forget that he waved to me as his limo went by.

Now it’s time to set the records straight about George Bush Sr.

The only reason he was elected President in 1988 was because he was able to ride into the White House on Reagan’s coattails.  Otherwise, I don’t know if he would ever been President.  He ran for President in 1980 but couldn’t get the nomination from Reagan.  He was a former CIA director and a war hero, like Bob Dole.

When they made the comment that he ended the Cold War, I want to set the record straight on that.  He did not end the Cold War.  It was Ronald Reagan who actually did it.  It may ended during his term as President.

Just like it was Ronald Reagan who told Gorbachev to tear down the Berlin Wall.  The wall came down in 1988-1989.

It’s just not right that the sitting President make claims to something they are not responsible for that a previous President was responsible for.  They want to claim the good but blame the bad on the past President.

Reagan was a Nationalist; whereas George Bush Sr. was the first the Globalist in a long line after Reagan, until now with Pres. Trump being a Nationalist.

A Nationalist is a person who advocates political independence for a country, or a person with strong patriotic feelings, especially one who believes in the superiority of their country over others.

A Globalist is a person who advocates the interpretation or planning of economic and foreign policy in relation to events and developments throughout the world.

So, set the records straight, I’m a Nationalist!

I do want to admit one thing, I did voted for him in 1988 and 1992.  Then again I was a young Republican, and became a Republican because Ronald Reagan.  I wasn’t really impress with him but I was still new in the political game.

One of his campaign promises that he used was, “Read my lips, no new taxes!”  He also hated broccoli.  Then again broccoli is better with cheese sauce.  Yet the cheese sauce made them unhealthy.

He did do one thing right and that was when he went after Saddam Hussein when he attacked Kuwait.  Where he failed though was how he handled it.  If he would had done it right the first time, his son, George W. Bush wouldn’t had to go after Saddam the second time while he was President.  This is not what turned me against the Bush’s family though, and not wanting to vote for George W. Bush or Jeb Bush.

When the fake mainstream news and the like of Murphey Brown attack Dan Quale; who was George Sr. Vice-President.  What did he do?  He did nothing to support old Dan Quale as he was being bullied.  This is where Bush Sr. is no better than John McCain.  They didn’t man-up when their running mate was being bullied.

I’m not saying that Dan Quale was right when he made the comment he made against single mothers.  I’m saying he was bullied by fake news mainstream media.  I have more respect for someone who stands up to the bullies, in helping those being bullied.  Bush Sr. had lost my respect.

I think what hurt his reelection chances was that and Ross Perot, who was a thorn in his side.  The Fake mainstream news made fun of Ross Perot also.  Some of the things he said did comes true.  Yet no one believed him; and that was why Bill Clinton, the lesser of 3 evils was elected President.

It was Bush Sr. who first introduced the failed NAFTA bill that was sign under Clinton.

Since Bush Sr. didn’t man-up to the press when Dan Quale was being bullied I lost respect for him and his family.  That was why I didn’t voted for George W. Bush for President.  The Established Republicans wanted him over Elizabeth Dole.  They were afraid of her for some reason.  I voted for her over George W. Bush. I even wrote in her name on that election.

There was one good thing about having George W. Bush over Al Gore, and that was 9/11.  I believe Al Gore would had done nothing.

Another reason I didn’t voted for George W. Bush is this, I felt he was unqualified to be President.

He was a recovering alcoholic.  That’s not the reason I didn’t vote for him though.  I believe the reason he became an alcoholic was because he was starving for his father’s approval.  Those who are starving for approval searched for others means, such as alcohol.

As I said, Barbara Bush was like everyone grandmother.  The impression I get from Bush Sr. was that he was tough and demanded a lot from his kids.

This reminds me of a story I heard about my grandparents.  My grandmother was sweet and my grandfather was a drunk.  He would pay his kids and/or grandkids to give him a hug; otherwise he may not get one.  Whereas my grandmother would gets a lot of hugs.

My Uncle Frank was a chip off the old block, just like grandpa.  His kids strived for his acceptance.

Just like with my step-dad, us kids strived for his acceptance.  We got it more from our mother than him.  In the end he did comes around though.

Back to George Sr. and George W. Bush,  I believe that the bushes’ kids were starving for acceptance from their father.  I believe because of that, George W. Bush became an alcoholic.  I also believe that was why he ran for President in the first place.  Look at who George W. Bush’s Vice-President was.  I mean Dick Cheney.  A Vice-President is suppose to be there as a support.  Now Dick Cheney seems to had been running the country and George W., who was starving for acceptance seems to let him.  He was being the puppet.

It goes to show that not only does the poor people has their problems with children being starved for acceptance.  The rich kids faced the same problems as well.  That problems have nothing to do with being rich or poor.  The only difference is that the rich would throw money at the problems and nothing get resolve.

Even though, George Sr. was a Republican, he voted for Hillary Clinton in 2016.  The reason was because they were angry at Donald Trump and the way he treated Jeb Bush in the Primaries.  To me , they were just being big babies.  Another reason why I have no respect for the Bush’s family.

There is one thing I do have admit though.  When George Sr. was 80 years old, he jumped out of an airplane with a parachute.  Now that takes courage especially at that age. I mean, one thing on my bucket list before I die is to jump out of a  plane.  When I look at my situation now, I have to admit that I have reconsider that on my bucket list.  I’m not in the best of shape; especially my knees.  So when George Sr. jumped out of a plane on his 80th birthday, I gives him thumbs up for that.

That is the only things I will give him praise for.  As for being President, I had no respect for him or even his son George W. Bush.  I’m sure glad that Jeb Bush couldn’t beat Trump in 2016.  I believe that Hillary Clinton would rather took  on Jeb than Trump.  She would had won for sure.