I’m not saying that I’m an experts on what woman wants. Heck, sometimes they are just too hard to figure out. I mean, it’s easier to figure us guys out than it is to figures women out. They are very much complex.
If anyone can figure them out, please let us in on their secret of what they wants or desire.
Years ago, when I was a kid or even later, like in the 50’s for example; woman had their place in the home. Back then, men kept them barefoot and pregnant. Not many of them worked outside of the home.
Today, they wants much more than that. Believe me, they deserve it too! A woman can do anything a man can do.
I was taught as a young boy to be a gentlemen and open doors for the ladies. I was also taught to put out your arms and let them hold onto you as they walk the icy sidewalk or parking lot.
Don’t get me wrong, there are some who still like it when a guy do that for them. Yet, now days, some of them gets offended if you hold the door open for them.
Girls are sugar and spice and everything nice. Yet they are not to be treated as being helpless. They are far from it.
Years ago, mothers would tells their daughters to get themselves a rich man; and let them take care of them.
Now days, women wants it all. They want a career and a family. They can achieve it as much as any guys out there. They wants equal pay for equal work. They deserve that too. That is only fair!
One of the most difficult Bible passages is from Ephesians 5:22-25. In verse 22, “wives are to submit to their husbands.” Then in verse 25, “Husbands are to love your wives.”
It doesn’t mean that wives are to be a doormat to their husbands though. Just like in Ephesians 6:1-4. Where children are to obey and honor their parents.
Men, we are not to dominate our wives or our children. Yet, there are those who do that in the name of the Lord.
I have to admit that for the longest time, I had a big problems with Ephesians 5 and 6. I was raised in a family that where the father was very dominating and controlling. I’m so glad that my mother was an independent woman. She was a feminist who also loved her family as well. it goes to show that women can have it all.
Because she was very much independent, she was able to stand up for herself; up until the end.
My step-dad voted for Obama over Hillary Clinton; because he wasn’t much for the idea of a woman president. He felt that woman had their place in the family. Yet he couldn’t control my mother. So in a way, she was good for him.
Like I said earlier, I’m no expert on what women wants. I’m not even able to come clean with my emotions and expressed my interest in someone I’m falling love with.
Women like a man who can be both strong and sensitive. They like someone who can protect them and comfort them at the same time. Yet, when they goes through that time of the month, that is a time for us guys to have a man cave to hide away until it is safe to come out.
Guys who had been married for a long time still can’t figure out their wives. They may complained about her; but yet deep down they loves her unconditionally. They are willing to do whatever it takes to satisfy her at all cost.
There was this one woman named, Danielle, who I found myself falling in love with. Yet, I couldn’t bring myself to let her know. As I said earlier, I wasn’t in touch with my emotional feelings as many guys aren’t.
Anyway, she was over in my apartment talking on my phone. I noticed that she was upset; so before she left, I said to her, “You look like you need a hug.” We hug and believe me, guys, it felt very nice; if you know what I mean.
I also have been to her apartment as well. It was Valentine’s Day and I took a chance and bought her a valentine; not knowing where it would leads me. I even made a strawberry Margarita and brought it over to her apartment.
Now days, with all this “me-too” situation going around, a person has to be careful when dealing with woman. When I was younger, you didn’t have to worry about that as much.
When I was in Junior High, there was a girl that I was interested in. Her name was Janet Cederberg. The other boys in school all knew it to. At that age, there is peer pressure to for boys by other boys. Here is a confession: with the encouragement of the other boys, I kissed her on the lips. I have to admit, I admired her even though I got my face slap by her.
Years ago, the saying goes that women loves sex, diamonds and money. Well to be totally honest, men crave sex more than women do. Who doesn’t love money. Money can buy diamonds.
Valentine’s day was created by women to get the men to buy them gifts or take them out to places that they normally wouldn’t go. Not many men will go to a classical concert themselves. They go because of their wives or girlfriends. They prefer doing what men loves doing.
When a man loves a woman, he will do whatever it takes to satisfy her.
Women loves chocolate, flowers, diamonds and being pampered. They wants to be comfort by their man.
At the same time, they wants their career as well.
As Shania Twain sang in “Any man of Mine,” he must truly love and respect their woman. Even if she happens to make more than he does.
I think my step-dad’s ego was bruise a little when he lost his job and my mother had to work to bring home the paycheck instead.
So this Valentine’s Day, guys treat your girlfriends or wives right. Love and respect them, not just on Valentine’s day though, everyday.
They may be expensive to have but they’re worth it.
God created woman out of man. God made woman because he knew that men are not meant to live alone. Remember, God created Adam and Eve; not Adam and Steve.
I wish that had a girlfriend or wife that I can spoil on Valentine’s day. There were woman that I was very much interested in; but I just couldn’t come clean with my feelings of love and expressed it.
I could go on with other girls in my life but I think you get the message. I love them everyone!