Who ever have had fantasy about being a sexual slave? What boys haven’t fantasied about being with 2 girls at the same time? To some extent, what girls had fantasied about being with 2 boys at the same time?

Forgive me if this sounds trashy; but there are people out there who are into bondage sex. Some may not even admit because it’s too disgusting. This is a taboo subject.

Even in the midst of the “Me-too” situation, there are some people who are into being in bondage. Let us look into the book turned into a movie, “50 Shades of Grey.” The first part was a box office hit. Both men and women seems to loved that movie, for 2 different reasons. Men, was more the sex part; and their really wasn’t much of that compared bondage porn. Whereas, women loved it because they saw it as a romantic movie.

Now what is so romantic about being in bondage?

I’m proud of these women who came forward in the “Me-too” situation. It takes courage to come forward and speaks out against their abuser.

So why do some seems to fantasied about being tied up and used sexually? Why is it such a booming business?

What teenage boy hasn’t fantasied about their teacher while sitting in class?

Men probably fantasied about sex more than women. Matter of fact, to some women, men can be pigs.

There are some sex therapist out there who recommend ways to spice your marriage and relationships.

If a couple is facing difficulty in their marriage due to their romantic department, sex therapist would make certain recommendation to help in that department. They would suggest to live out your fantasy about being in bondage. How does that spice up a marriage?

When the best way to spice up a marriage is communication, treating your spouse the way you wants to be treated. Buy your wife flowers, candies, or take her out to romantic evening. That will spruce up your relationship more.

I don’t care how you stack it. Bondage is a form of abuse. For those who haven’t been abuse, they just don’t see it.

There might even be some who had been abuse but don’t see it as abuse; and so they somehow are drawn to bondage.

We are living in a sexual revolution.

Since this is a taboo subject, I’m going to cut it short before I disgust my readers too much.

This coming Friday is Valentine’s day. If you wants to put a little spice into your marriage buy your wife flowers, candies, or take her out for a romantic night. That will be the best way!

Communication is the best way to save a relationship. Don’t just tie up your spouse because it’s your fantasy! You need to communicate with your girlfriend/boyfriend. You can share your fantasy with each other but not when you first start dating. You may be into bondage but they may not be. If you tied them up and force yourself onto them, it’s rape and abuse!

Next week in part 2, I will show the downside of bondage; by discussing sex trafficking.