In light of Valentine’s Day coming up this coming Wednesday, Feb. 14, I thought I lighten it up a little.  The men may not be happy of me giving away our secrets; but the women will truly loves reading this blog.

First of all, Valentine’s Day was created by women.  If it weren’t for women, men wouldn’t have anything to do with this holiday.

Valentine’s Day is a sentimental, romantic holiday.

You all heard of  the book, “Men are from Mars and Women from Venus.”  Well, I’m here to tell you that it’s not as difficult as the author wants us to believe.

Us, men would be happy with a cold beer in one hand and a beautiful woman by our side, or riding shotgun. Us, men loves fast cars and fast women. As I said in my blog on breastfeeding, men are pigs.  We have sex on the brain.  We do most of our thinking about women with our organ down below our belt.

Emotions doesn’t come easy for us men.  That is why Valentine’s Day is a women’s holiday.

Men also finds it difficult to ask for help.  Our pride gets in the way.  If we’re lost we will continue driving until we find what we are looking for.

Whatever help we may need, men will not seek it.  By seeking the help, it will only admit to our weakness.  We want to remain strong!

Men will find it difficult to admit being victims of abuse.  Men are taught to be strong from childhood.  They are taught to not show any emotions at all.  The only emotions that is shown is anger, and that is through violence.

When it comes to expressing our feelings to a woman, it is very difficult for us men to do.  I speak from experience here.  I’ve had woman that I was interested in; but I could never expressed my feelings toward them.  Maybe this is why I’m still single, and not for the lack of trying on my part.

I have kissed a few girls in my life.  My first kiss happened when I was 10 years old.  Then when I was 13, and in the seventh grade, I kissed the girl I had a crush on since the 6th grade.  Her name was Janet.

When I was in college, there was an older woman named Susan, who I became friends with.  We went roller skating together, and even held hands.  We ate supper together in the dining hall.  Anyway, bunch of guys in my dorm thought that we had more going on together than what we had.  Men are more apt to fall for peer pressure.  So I did just that, and believe that was the biggest mistake I made.  I lost the best thing in my life.

My real father nickname was, “Whistler’s.”   I, myself cannot whistle.  I guess, you can say I pick up more of my step-dad ‘s traits.

Some may think this was creepy, but my mother thought it was romantic when my step-dad got in her house to say either marry him or she will never see him again.

There were others women I was interested in after Susan.  I’m not going to name them all.  There is one I will mentioned though.  She was the last one as of date. Her name was Danielle.  She lived in my apartment building.  I’ve been to her apartment and she had been to mine.  I’ve gave her a hug because I saw that she needed it.  Believe me, it felt good.  Guys knows what I’m talking about!  I even made Strawberry Margarita and brought her some.  I just couldn’t put my feelings out there to let her know how I felt about her.

When a man loves a woman, he will do anything for her.  Whatever she wants, her man will do what he can to get it for her.

Women has that spell on us guys that way.

Things that men normally wouldn’t like, they will like because of the woman they are trying to win over.  From the music we listen to, to whatever else it may be.

If you ask me, I would say that women are harder to understand.  They are harder to satisfy.  They are more complex than us men.

When a woman asked a man something, she really doesn’t want the truth.  For example: when she asked, “Does this dress make me looks fat?”  Don’t tell her it does when it does.  She will only get mad and may deny you what all men wants.  SEX!!  There I said folks!

So you see, men are not hard to figure out.  Women knows exactly what we truly desired.  It’s you, women that is hard to figure out.  Us guys will do anything for you.

If a woman wants romance for such days as Valentine’s Day, we’ll romance you with chocolate, flowers, etc.