My Fight

What is your personality type? Are you passive, aggressive, or passive-aggressive?

A passive person is describe as someone who doesn’t take action but instead let things happen to them. They easily are victimized by others.

An aggressive person describes any behavior or act aimed at harming a person. As a rule, they are a bully.

Passive-aggressive person is when you express negative feelings indirectly instead of openly talking about them.

An aggressive person comes across as a bully. They will pick on someone who they sees as being weak and easily taken advantage of. Have you ever been bullied by someone? You can be bullied in person or online. As Taylor Swift sang about, “Why do you have to be so Mean?”

Are you the kind of person who is victimized a lot by others? Are you easily taken advantage of or bullied? Do people tends to abuse you because of your nature? Do they pick on you because they finds it easier to do so?

Some say, if you don’t stand up for yourself, you are just a coward and you deserve what you get.

I’m here to tell you that you don’t have to remain a victim all your life. Those in counseling learn this rather quickly to take back your life from those who abused you in the past or even in the present.

A passive person hates to make waves. They are afraid to offend someone. My mother was the kind of person who was afraid of making waves. Those who doesn’t want to make waves will stay in an abusive relationship no matter what. They don’t see abuse unless there’s bruises. They don’t see psychological and emotional abuse as being abuse.

There are some who don’t like someone who comes across as being passive-aggressive. They sees them as troublemakers, and not easily controlled.

In a way, Trump was a passive-aggressive person even though he came across as a bully. I don’t know about you; but I kind of miss his mean tweets. At least, the economy was better! He had a backbone. He wasn’t afraid to call it out; and call a spade a spade.

Even though Jesus would say to turn the other cheek; he wasn’t a wimp, that would take the abuse. In a way, he was passive-aggressive also. Jesus knew when to take a stand and when not too. There was a time that Jesus told the Pharisees off and threw them out of the temple. Then there was time when Jesus just turned the other cheek; especially when he was being beaten and hung on the cross. He even said, “Father, forgive them for they know not what they do.

I don’t know about you, but I prefer leaders who has a backbone. Someone who isn’t afraid to take a stand. President Reagan was also the kind of person who also wasn’t afraid to take a stand as well. He ordered the air traffic controller to get back to work or be fired. He ordered Gorbachev to tear down the wall in Berlin, Germany. He had more tact than Trump though; so he didn’t come across as a bully as Trump did.

There are a few good Republicans out there who actually got some balls. They are willing to stand up against the Establishment. They are willing to stand up against people like Mitch McConnell. Those are the kind of people I will vote for.

When a person takes on corporation or anyone like that, they are called out for it. They are known for having an attitude. If you speak out against them, you have an attitude. They want you to toll the mark or else! They want you to comply. As Biden will say, “You are all gonna pay if you don’t comply!”

For the longest time I was a passive person. I was easily abused and taken advantage of by bullies. I was bullied a lot growing up. I’m learning to stand up for myself. I’m learning to become a better person and more passive-aggressive. Some may see me with having an attitude because of it too.

We are not robots. We were created to have a mind of our own. It’s time we also get a backbone as well. When you stand up for yourself, some people thinks you shouldn’t do it and should apologize for it. I believe it scares them to see people actually standing up for themselves against the MAN.

I don’t know if the title fit; maybe another title might be “Who I am.” You tell me which is a better title?

When you look in the mirror, what do you see? It doesn’t matter how you see. All that matters is how you see yourself. What do you see in the mirror about yourself? Are you a robot and a yes person or are you someone who will stand up for yourself and take a stand for what you believe even if it’s against the status quo?

Like I said earlier, I was very passive. I was easily bullied by others growing up. I’m learning to stand up for myself. If that’s having an attitude, so be it. I’m not going to be a victim anymore.

Like Jesus, sometimes, there is a place and time for everything. Sometimes, a person has to know when to speak up and when not too. My blog is my platform to speak out against the injustice of those who wants to control us.

When they can control us and have us being passive rather than passive-aggressive, those in power very much like that.

Don’t let them tell you that you have an attitude because you choose to stand up for yourself. It’s them who have the problems not you. There’s no need to apologize for standing up for yourself either. As in the song, “Coward of the County”, sometimes you have to fight; otherwise they will win.